It can be mighty frustrating to be a male with an eating disorder. On top of battling a life-threatening illness, you’re faced with limitations in treatment options, stereotypes from the general public, and a lack of understanding that males suffer from eating disorders, too.
For far too long, eating disorders were viewed as rich, white, girl, diseases. This was in part due to the fact the symptoms required to be diagnosed with an eating disorder included female-specific criteria. Because of this, males were often overlooked and left to suffer in silence.
Fortunately, the field of eating disorders is evolving! We now know that eating disorders affect everyone — people of all ages, races, religions, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, socioeconomic classes, body shapes and sizes.
Providers are now able to accurately diagnose males with eating disorders because the symptoms required for diagnosis no longer include female-specific language. More facilities and providers are offering services to males than ever before. Organizations like NAMED (The National Association for Males with Eating Disorders) and MGEDT (Men Get Eating Disorders Too) are working to raise awareness of eating disorders in males and to support those suffering. Other national organizations such as NEDA and AED are advocating for male-inclusive research and treatment — and educating the general public to recognize these disorders in males.
By sharing your story, you will help dispel the myth that eating disorders are ‘girl diseases.’ You may also make it easier for other males to share their own stories; they’ll know they are not alone.
Going to NEDA walks in your area and participating in other eating disorder awareness events can be a powerful contribution to the community. A male presence at these events will raise awareness that many males struggle with eating disorders.
Challenge and correct language with your friends, family, communities, and on social media that promotes the stereotype that eating disorders are a female disease.
Ask for help for yourself and encourage other males to do the same. As more males seek treatment, the treatment community will respond to the call by providing additional resources.